
When Pet Grief Does Not Lift: Understanding Prolonged Grief
For a significant number of people, grief after a pet's death persists well beyond what the people around them expect. Here is what prolonged grief disorder actually is and what helps.
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Dawn, Certified Pet Death Doula · Virtual grief support across Canada and the United States
I know what it is to love an animal more than most people in your life, and I know what it is to carry the grief of their death completely alone.
That is why I became a pet death doula. You do not have to carry your grief alone. Let's talk.
Dawn replies within 2 hours on weekdays. If it is not the right fit, she will say so.
"I found this site at 2am, three weeks after Rosie died, after another night of not being able to explain to anyone why I still felt this way."

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There will be people who say "it was just a pet." I am not one of them.
Our animals are our people. The grief does not become smaller because someone else says it should. You are not too much for feeling it as deeply as you do. I offer a space where you can bring all of it, without explanation or apology.
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Your pet has been given a serious diagnosis and you cannot stop dreading what is coming
You are lying awake wondering if you will know when it is time to let them go
Your pet has just died and the people around you have already moved on
You put your pet down weeks ago and the guilt still has not left
You have heard it was just a pet one too many times
You have been carrying this alone because you do not want to burden anyone
15 minutes by Zoom or phone. No prep, no commitment. If it is not the right fit, Dawn will say so.
Whether your pet is nearing the end of life, you're preparing to say goodbye, or you're grieving after the loss, you are in the right place.

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Margaret Lachance, Wisconsin
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"When our cat Juniper was diagnosed with lymphoma, I was completely undone. A friend sent me Dawn's name. What I found was someone who understood exactly where I was, not rushing me toward the end, not minimizing what was happening, just walking beside me through it. The support during those last six weeks, and after, made a real difference."
James and Priya Kachewanigo, Winnipeg
Companion to Juniper
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